Individualized Coaching Solutions

Life doesn’t always go as planned.

Life is not always exactly as we want it to be, and that’s okay. Contrast every day is good. But when you feel like you are thrust into a change you didn’t expect or want, or when you know it’s time to take the leap into something more for yourself, that’s when life becomes more difficult to navigate on your own.  

I work with people all over the country, just like you, who are pushing their way through change and coming out reinvented and more alive than they ever felt before!  

Change doesn’t have to end badly.

It can be the catalyst you need to find yourself, reinvent and become more.  

  • You need a new perspective. Someone who can ask the right questions for you to get to the answers that are already inside.
  • You need someone to show you the way, teaching you new strategies so you can tackle new challenges as they come.
  • You need someone to show you how to push outside your comfort zone and hold you accountable to do the work necessary to live the life you want.

I can help.

“Betsy is a masterful coach as she gives new insight to Starting Small to live your Big Life.” 

-Kyle Maynard, 2-Time ESPY Award Winner, NYT Bestselling author of No Excuses


Schedule a coaching call to discuss what you need, be sure we’re a fit & decide on the steps that are right for you. This call is an impactful coaching call, so be prepared to dive in. I want you to fully understand what you are getting and to experience how my coaching really works before you commit.  I also have standards for the clients I accept and I want to be sure you are someone I believe I could work well with.


Betsy Pake – Reinvention Strategist

I’ve been through the hard stuff too. Through the death of my mother when I was in high school, through divorce, single motherhood, career changes and finding myself again. I’ve been an entrepreneur, building and selling businesses and starting new. So, I know you don’t need another glorified goal setting program. 

Instead when you work with me:

  • Together we identify what’s next for you. How to proceed and what path will really lead you to the Big Life you so deserve.
  • We work together to achieve real breakthroughs in all areas of your life; your career, your friendships, relationships with your family & partner, and with yourself. Finding where you are stuck and helping you hear that small voice again that knows the path you should travel.
  • Thru the use of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and our discussions, you get a perspective shift and uncover your path in the way that speaks most to you.
  • We get into what it will take to change your behavior and your beliefs so you can feel your life at another level than you are living today.
  • Together, I’ll share techniques with NLP to help you reprogram, take your willpower out of the equation and put in systems that can help you succeed.

Love For Betsy

After a 45-minute phone call with Betsy – I took action toward a goal that had been lingering for years. With some thoughtful questioning and what seemed like plain talk, Betsy was able to get me to move forward. I didn’t feel like I was being coached, I felt like I was being led and encouraged. Thank you, Betsy, for helping me move toward what I want!  – Catia Holm

“Thank you so much for our time chatting! Just thinking in a different way has TOTALLY changed my entire mood! My husband noticed too and I know this is just the beginning of my new journey! Even allowing myself to THINK about new things has been so freeing!”  -Mary Beth Hoopes

“Although I’ve known Betsy since our days together in college, it’s only been recently that I started working with her as I contemplated making a major move in my career. Betsy somehow knows how to get right to the heart of the matter and pick apart the issues that hold me back. What makes her extraordinary is not only the action-oriented advice she gives but also the way she truly listens during our conversations. Betsy is able to find the layers of meaning in what I say and knows how to use it to help me take the leaps of faith necessary to grow — both professionally and personally. I’m so glad I’m on this journey with Betsy!”  -Marie Rossiter


1:1 Life & Business Coaching is for an initial 3-months and includes six (6) 60-minute sessions with email/text support during business hours. During this time, I will help you find what’s holding you back and develop real strategies to help you move forward with clarity and purpose.

These sessions are all customized for what you specifically need. They don’t follow a mold or sequence that everyone goes through because everyone’s challenges are different and unique. So is the coaching experience.

I’ll help you get a clear vision of the road ahead and understand what steps you need to take now to get to where you want to be.  During your coaching time, you also get business hour Voxer access to me to communicate and troubleshoot. Voxer is a voicemail app for your phone that allows me to support you between calls.

The best way to understand the power of coaching is to start by having a transformational coaching call. Schedule your free call here.

*Each session is 60 minutes and will be recorded via Zoom (free on your computer). After our call, you’ll receive an email with the downloadable recording so you can revisit after the call. This can help you be present and engaged during the call instead of writing or trying to remember things. If you’d rather do our call on the phone, that is okay but I won’t be able to present you with a copy of the call when we are finished.

Issue Specific NLP Coaching is designed to help you have a breakthrough in a specific area. This is for someone who wants to stop smoking, breakthrough money blocks, weight loss or cut through another issue. 

These sessions are all customized for what you specifically need. NLP isn’t magic, but it is extremely effective if you desire to change. 

One NLP session can shift your thinking very quickly; I’ve had clients who smoked a pack a day drop to 1 or 2 cigarettes a day after one session. The NLP Package has follow-up sessions built in so we can work together on any lingering issues or anything new that comes up as a result of your initial change.

NLP coaching is for One 60-minute session and two follow up sessions which are anywhere from 20-60 minutes depending on needs.  

Learn more by scheduling a call with Betsy to talk about your specific issue and learn more.

I worked with Betsy to stop smoking. In our first session, I dropped from smoking 9 cigarettes a day to 2. We met two other times for mini sessions, and we did the NLP work and she taught me strategies to resist the urge to smoke. I messed up sometimes, but I had a plan and it got easier and easier.
Thank you, Betsy Pake, for getting me here. Thank you a million times over.  -Zach Friedensohn

My qualifications

 I have a Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Certification from The iNLP Center.  NLP is a program designed to impact the 3 most influential components in the human experience: Neurology, communication,  and programming. The neurological system regulates how our bodies function, language determines how we interface and communicate with other people and our programming determines the kinds of models of the world we create.

I have an Infinite Possibilities Life coaching program certification, I am a certified happiness coach and am a member of the International Association of Professional Life Coaches. Additionally, I hold a degree is a psychology from Castleton University. I’m the author of several books and programs that help people make substantial changes in their lives and begin to live more fully and feel more in control. I’ve started, bought and sold brick & mortar, as well as online businesses, and worked with others to help them achieve their goals with a sale or start up.

Cancellation policy:  If you decide to move forward and work with me, your payment for coaching as well as any online programs or offerings I have, are non-refundable. Make sure your decision is solid before you move forward in working with me. I am going ALL IN with you. I won’t hold anything back, I won’t cancel on you. I need you to do the same. Be committed, even when the work gets hard. Don’t give up. Hold yourself accountable. 

This is a 100% firm policy and it’s to help you make the best decision and to move forward with conviction in your life. 

Is Coaching Tax Deductable?   Your coaching investment may be tax deductible. In the United States, all expenses for continuing education undertaken to maintain and improve business and professional skills are tax deductible.  Check with your tax consultant or if you live outside the United States check with your local tax authority.(Treas. Reg. 1-162-5, Coughlin vs. Commissioner, 203F 2d 307).

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