335: Finding Miracles (every day!)


In todays episode, Betsy gives you a sneak peek into one of the “dates with the subconscious mind” that she holds over at The Collective.

Today you’ll learn about what miracles are and how you may be perceiving them.

To learn more head to www.betsypake.com/collective


Welcome to the Art of Living big podcast. My name is Betsy pake. I’m an author, a speaker, and a trainer of NLP and hypnotherapy. And I’m focused on helping you understand and design your life with the power of the subconscious. This podcast is designed to help you think differently about what could be possible for your life. Now, let’s go live big. Hey, everyone, welcome to the show today. Welcome to the Art of Living big. I’m feeling better, I’m feeling better last week, I was so sick. So thanks for bearing with me during that show last week. But this week, there’s, it’s like allergy season, you’re gonna hear me talk about it here in just a second. But what I want to say I want to just tell you what you’re about to hear. So today on the show, I am recording. I’m actually recording a day early. I’m leaving tomorrow, I’m going to go see my dad, I haven’t seen him in a couple of years. And so I’m really excited, I’m going to drive down to Florida and see him tomorrow and get to have a little ocean time. So I’m taking a couple of days off. And typically on Thursdays the podcast comes out. And also I do a training inside the collective. Now, if you’re not familiar with the collective, it’s my year long coaching programs. So every week I come in, and there’s an event for like 30 minutes. So typically, I train on something for 20 minutes, I call it a date with your unconscious mind. And then people ask questions or, you know, we have a discussion about stuff. So also in there, you get all of my courses, most of my courses, all the good ones. So you get all those courses in there. So you could dive into something that I’m teaching even deeper. Alright, so tomorrow, I’m going to be on vacation. So I record I pre recorded the event for everybody, which I do occasionally, like if I have a speaking gig or something, I think I’ve had to do it twice since we started this last year. If you want to join the collective, you should join, just go to my website, you’ll see the link there. But what I wanted to bring you today was a part of this week’s collective not the whole thing, because that wouldn’t be fair, but a chunk because I think it could help you start to think a little bit differently, we are diving into a whole series on miracles. And so this very first session of the month, we’re diving into miracles and how we perceive things. So at the end, I have I tell some stories, and I have an exercise for people to do throughout the week. But I’m going to give you like 10 minutes or so of the training so you can kind of see what it’s like. And you can see if it’s something maybe for you, maybe you really like it and you want to dive in more to miracles I didn’t want you guys to miss out on this month, because I think this month is going to be really, really powerful. And, and I want more people like having miraculous miracles happen every day and to go, Oh my God, this really cool thing is happening. Like I have said this before in my groups, but I would love if the people that are in my groups go we have more miracles happen than anybody else. Do you know what I mean? To be like, We are a group of miracle makers. So this month is really important in that. So I wanted to make sure that you knew about the collective and that you got a little taste of it. So I am going to share with you about 10 minutes into this episode for this week. And if you like it, join us and if not, there’ll be more there’ll be more. I’ll be back next week with another episode about something else. And you can continue on your journey with me this way. So thank you so much for being here. And now let’s go to the training. Hello, hi everybody. I thought about not doing a video, I’m going to be honest, I thought maybe I’ll do like a podcast that you all can listen to. Because I have been sick for like a week and a half. And so this is why I look like this. And then I thought part of being in this group I think is that it’s not like the public. Do you know what I mean? And it gives us space to just be how we are and I have been feeling a lot better like a lot better. And it’s allergy season here. I think everything is yellow outside and my nose just today just shut down. And to go even further with this story. At the end of the month. I have to have surgery on my nose so I will be out for a couple of weeks. My nose is too small for a Air. In fact, this morning, I had to go to my pre op appointment, and the doctor was trying to look at my nose. And he was like, I gotta get a pediatric scope to look up your nose because your nose is so small. And I thought, Oh, God, that is very funny that you meet like, not my thighs, no, my nose, you decided to make insanely small, so I just can’t breathe. So when the allergies flare up, it’s, it’s just mind boggling for me. But I have some really, really fun stuff to start with you. And so I’m excited to dive in to all things miracles. Now, this kind of came about, you know, I’m always trying to think ahead of like, what is it that would serve everybody the most? And how can people have the biggest shifts and changes and so many times, and I know, you’ve heard me say this before, but whatever it is that we are going through, we, it’s reflected in other people, right? And so I noticed for myself that for me, I was really trying to activate miracles, like I was consciously thinking about it. And as I started thinking about it, and and maybe when we’re all together, I’ll tell a story recently of a big miracle. But we were getting together my husband and I, and how can we create something that isn’t available to us in our present state. And I started really trying to break down this process. And so I wanted to share it with you so much of it has been unconscious to me. But I’ve tried to make it conscious so that I can break down the steps. So each week we’re going to break down, how I think I’m going to do it is one step. And the reason is, is that if I give you like two steps, it you might forget not that you’re not capable of, if we could do one and practice it, then I think it would become part of your nervous system in a in a different way. So, so let’s just get started. Let’s just get started before I go too far. So one of the things I think, that I’m gonna say I’ve always been really lucky is that really magical things happen to me, like all the time, and lots of times I share those things on the show. Lots of times, they’re so outlandish that I’m too short to tell you, you might think I might think that someone would think I was bragging or lying. Honestly. I’m so tempted to tell you what happened this week, but I am going to I’m going to wait. Here’s my point is that miracles happen all around us all the time, I am not special, I’m not any special er than you, we all are special, right? Just like the next person. And if I’m able to perceive, and I believe there’s so much I can grow into, like, there’s so much that is out there that I am not perceiving yet. And so miracles are all around us. So when we think about like, what is a miracle? And I mentioned in that guidepost, you know, lots of times I think we have this idea that like miracles are like from the Bible, or like some sort of really religious text, right, like people walking on water or turning water into wine or whatever miracle it is that you remember from, you know, your childhood and learning about that stuff.

But miracles are everywhere. And they happen all the time. And experiencing a miracle doesn’t mean that it’s just like another way of perceiving something like, oh, well, you’re just calling that a miracle. Like no, like magical, big things can happen that make you that delight you and make you in awe. So it’s one thing to know that, right? It’s one thing to know, okay, miracles are all around me, I believe it right? It’s one thing to know it and it’s another thing to actually experience it. And so when we think about how we experience the world, and I know you’ve probably heard me say this over and over and over again, but I will say it again because it frames this whole conversation. But I am taking in information into my nervous system, right? I’m seeing things I’m hearing things I’m experiencing the world and how I’m experiencing the world comes into my unconscious mind, who then sorts and CIFS and then consciously gives me a little packet of information every second. So 2 million pieces are coming in my sorter and my sister does its thing and then hands me 126 of those pieces. So that means there’s like a million something million 900 Something, pieces of information 800 1,800,000 there’s math, all of those pieces every second. Now, could there be miracles mixed in with that? Yeah. But your nervous system is only going to show you what it is primed for. It’s only going to show you what it remember, the very top thing that the unconscious mind wants to do is keep you alive. So it doesn’t want to like, do anything that’s outside of the norm, really, because that could be risky, or who knows what could happen. So when we think about that, then me getting that packet of information comes from the sorcerer, and sifter. And as we know, the sorcerer, and sifter is my unconscious mind. But what is that? What is that? And really, when we think about that, the main frame of our unconscious mind is our identity. So the mainframe of our experience, because it’s sorting and sifting based on who you think you are. And as we get into, like, the layers of the unconscious, the very top layer is my identity. Now, here’s where I think miracles get confused in this whole conversation. Because now, if my mainframe computer is my identity, and you’re thinking like, Okay, well, who to identify is as because I’ve heard you talk about this. So I know it’s like, I don’t I am, abundant I am. Are you a body? Are you a body? Like, what do you perceive yourself as in this experience? Or do you believe that you’re a spirit? Having a experience and physical experience as a body? Do you believe you’re a piece of source energy? And I don’t mean, like, in a conversation, I mean, like, what do you really, really, really believe? Because how you are experiencing that mainframe experience, if I believe I’m a body, from the deepest level of everything, I believe I’m a body, then I’m going to perceive things that are within the scope of the body, like my eyeballs are geared to perceive a certain range, a spectrum of light, right, my senses are meant to experience and if something’s too hot, or too cold, it’s meant to recoil. So if you perceive yourself as a body, you’re going to have a different experience disorder, and sifter is going to do different things, then if you experience yourself as a piece of consciousness, seeking spiritual enlightenment, or whatever it is, right? If you experience yourself as a piece of energy, then maybe you’re opening yourself up, right? If you believe that you are a piece of source energy, that’s what I think. And I think that source is having the Betsy experience, because it was like, let’s try and see what that feels like. And then it’s having the criss experience and it’s having the April experience, and it’s having, like, but it’s it is once I saw this graphic that was so good. It was like this. Right. So here’s Betsy and April. And Nancy and John, right? Really, it’s all connected. And if you believe that, if you believe that, then what Chris does isn’t separate from what I do. Which means I could perceive things that she’s experiencing, or have happened or thinking about. Back in December. I started having dreams about worry dolls. You know, those little worry dolls. Do you know what those are? I always think of them like from Mexico. And I remember I had some as a kid, and they’re like these little cloth dolls and you put your worries on them and then you put them in a little pouch and then you put them under your pillow and then your worries get taken away by the worry dolls. And I I I remembered like waking up and thinking it was kind of weird. I hadn’t thought about losing too long. But I brushed it off because who cares? Like we have a lot of random thoughts. And then April came to visit a Christmas time and brought me worry dolls now why? I haven’t thought about worried else in 30 years, maybe 40. Now I could say well, it’s a coincidence. But maybe it’s me thinking this. Maybe it’s because my mainframe is open to a different kind of experience. Because I’m not limiting myself. Have to the human body. Right? So if I think I’m a body, my experience is gonna reflect that. And I think that if I’m a, if I think I’m a soul or a piece of consciousness, if I think I’m a mind bending, magical miracle sourcing machine, then I’m gonna see that. So there’s so much more there for you if you want to come and join us inside the collective. But even if you don’t, what is it that you think you are? Maybe this week, take a little bit of time and start to notice and understand how you perceive the world. All right, I will see you all next week. Hey, thanks so much for listening to today’s show. And thank you for sharing the show with your friends. I love when you guys do that. I appreciate it so much. And thank you for leaving me a review on iTunes. I know that it matters because when I go to find a podcast, I always look to see what the reviews are. So it really means a lot to me that you take a minute to like figure out how to even make that happen. Now, if you want to find me find me on social media. I’m usually on Instagram, starting out on Tik Tok. It’s just my name. Betsy pake, and that’s my website to Betsy pake.com. And you can find out all about the work that I do. having me speak for an event that you might be hoping to plan or getting trained inside my alchemy Institute. But to make it really easy, if you want me just shoot me a DM shoot me a direct message on Instagram and I will be at your service. Thanks again for listening. And I will see you all next week.


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About Betsy

Hi I’m Betsy and I’m a subconscious change expert.
By day you can find me digging deep into the unconscious beliefs and identity of my clients so they can move past self-sabotage and lack of confidence and gain traction in their career and life.